Monthly Archives: January 2011

Self-Forgiveness: Expanding self-forgiveness on relationships as building blocks of self

Posted on January 28, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react energetically to and towards people, when I think or believe that they are guilty or to blame for something. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed … Continue reading →

Posted in Self-forgiveness | Tagged acquaintances, advanced self-forgiveness, defining self through a relationship, defining self through relationships, definition, definitions, expanding self-forgiveness, family, friends, perceiving self through the eyes of others, personalities, self-definition through relationships, self-definitions, self-forgiveness, strangers | 1 Comment

Wanting to get approval

Posted on January 24, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

This topic in itself is very extensive in terms of the reality, in terms of how much influence it has, and that it’s everywhere where there are people that are forming any groups or societies. Even though most claims they … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles | Tagged approval, care about others think of me, caring about what others think about me, caring for others approval, confirmation, looking for confirmation, looking for validation, self-responsibility, self-trust, validation, want of approval, want to be approved, want to get approval, wanting to be recognized | Leave a comment

Mind-fucks caused by not taking self-responsibility completely in relation to a certain matter

Posted on January 22, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

OK, so I’ve noticed an interesting thing within myself, that the points I have judged myself upon and created mind-fucks about — in terms of judging myself and perceiving as ‘not good enough’ or ‘ineffective’ — have within themselves or … Continue reading →

Posted in Day to day journal/blog | Tagged absolutely, approaching a task, complete, completely, completing a task, dealing with something, doing, full, full participation, fully, fully pariticipating, matter, participation, self-judgment, self-responsibility, something, taking self-responsibility | Leave a comment

Presenting a Personality

Posted on January 19, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

I have in my life often experienced myself, as If I am ‘lesser’ or not ‘enough’ in some way and have perceived that I have to ‘show’ myself to others in a certain defined specific way — because of experiencing … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles | Tagged artificial, fake, fake presentation, hiding, hiding behind a pesonality, hiding insecurities, hiding insecurity, masking, personality, personality presentation, phony, phony presentation, presentation, presenting a personality, show, suppressing, wearing a mask | Leave a comment

Making judgments & taking everthing into consideration

Posted on January 17, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

Inferiority and superiority is a very basic and common thing that happens in the mind as this manifestation of judgment. It’s so common that we as people thrive on these points — of being better and worse. It also true, … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles | Tagged bullshit of the ego, comparison, condemn, condemnation, consideration, ego bullshit, equationg reality, inequality is bullshit, inferiority, inferiority is bullshit, judgment, mathematics of ego, mathematics of mind, mathematics of the ego, mathematics of the mind, nature of observation, nature of perception, observation, perception, reality, superiority, superiority is bullshit, taking everything into consideration, throne of condemnation, truth | Leave a comment

Choice

Posted on January 14, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

What is fascinating about choice, is that I actually choose everyday, just like each and every single one does. Everything that we participate or do not participate in — is our choice. Yet it’s not an obvious choice, because if … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles | Tagged bad, choice, deciding, decision making, free will, give life meaning, give yourself worth, giving life meaning, good, life, living, meaning of life, sel-respect, self-honesty, self-worth | Leave a comment

Isolation & fear of not being good enough

Posted on January 12, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

Well as the title says I’m gonna explore isolation and fear of being not good enough. Why? Because I have been isolating myself within and throughout my life, when I felt that I am unwilling, when I felt that I … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged fear, feeling inferior, feeling of being not enough, inferior, inferiority, isolation, not being good enough, not enough | Leave a comment

Morality, fear of failure, money

Posted on January 11, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

Now, for a while I have been looking at the construct of morality, and I have mathematically seen that it’s just useless bullshit — in terms of it’s value, as it’s functionality is rather limiting. I’ve seen myself within this … Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged failure, fear, fear of failure, fear of failure and money, fear of not being good enough, good and bad, looser, loosing, money, morality, not being good enough, polarity of the mind, should and shouldnt, success and failure, win and loose | Leave a comment

Self-forgiveness on blame and guilt, based on judgments/ideas about specific points, and on generating anger through that

Posted on January 7, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe, that there are some specific, specified problems and issues that are standing in the way, of me becoming more, then I currently experience myself — in terms of … Continue reading →

Posted in Self-forgiveness | Tagged anger, blame, blame & guilt, detail, detailed self-forgiveness, example of self-forgiveness, guilt, guilt=blame, self-forgiveness | Leave a comment

Self-responsibility = freedom from guilt & blame

Posted on January 3, 2011 by Larys Kaziukonis

In this article, I will discuss self-responsibility as a mean to free oneself, form the feelings/emotional experiences, of guilt and blame. Which are both — as I’ve noticed — a result of not taking self-responsibility. Now to understand that, let’s … Continue reading →

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Monthly Archives: January 2011

Self-Forgiveness: Expanding self-forgiveness on relationships as building blocks of self

Wanting to get approval

Mind-fucks caused by not taking self-responsibility completely in relation to a certain matter

Presenting a Personality

Making judgments & taking everthing into consideration

Choice

Isolation & fear of not being good enough

Morality, fear of failure, money

Self-forgiveness on blame and guilt, based on judgments/ideas about specific points, and on generating anger through that

Self-responsibility = freedom from guilt & blame

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